Many manufacturers market the products as dietary supplements because the products contain natural ingredients, including vitamins and minerals. When shopping for male enhancement products, read the label carefully. You might find that the product contains the same ingredients as those found in a multivitamin. You should also look at what the product does because not all supplements promise the same thing. Some shoppers want a male enhancement supplement that increases stamina, but some men want a product that only contains natural ingredients.

• Forget surgery. The full monty, lengthening and girth enhancement, is expensive (around $15,000) and problematic. Lengthening surgery cuts the ligament that makes an erection stand up. This adds an inch, but erections no longer salute. They just hang between your legs and must be manually directed into erotic openings. Girth enhancement takes fat from the buttocks and injects it under the penis skin. Sounds good, but quite often, the result is a lumpy, deformed-looking penis.

Most of these products that are available over the counter feature herbal and natural ingredients. They are considered safe for use [12], but you should contact your physician if you are taking medications, are under 18, or have any chronic conditions. Even some natural ingredients can interfere with prescription medications [13]. A small minority of people, including males, can also have reactions to products such as enhancements, even though they are natural. As with any other supplement or food you consume, use your due diligence to make sure there are no ingredients you are allergic to in the products you choose to take.


So how can we be sure it really exists? “Because the number of men seeking surgery, or the growth of this strange industry selling pills and other so-called enlargement remedies, these numbers do not map up with the numbers of men who actually have a significantly smaller penis than average,” Veale says. “So, these men are worrying about – and seeking solutions for – a problem they do not have.”

“I’ve seen a lot of shifts over the years,” Big Al says after explaining a reverse kegel called the DLD Blaster. “When I first started, most guys were just looking for raw size — length and girth.” As time has passed, though, he’s given much more attention to things like erection quality, sexual confidence and addiction to porn. In fact, these days, four out of five of Big Al’s clients are self-diagnosed porn addicts.
Cock Rings. These rubber donut-shaped devices tightly encircle the erect penis. Typically used to help maintain erection, they also provide a small--temporary--size boost. Flaccid or erect, blood circulates in and out of the penis. One of the veins that carries blood out runs close to the organ's skin (on top). A ring restricts outflow somewhat by compressing this vein. Don't expect miracles. Any effect is modest and temporary.

Can you imagine what your sex life would be like if you had Biomanix? Imagine how excited you will be to show off your new and improved sexual performance. Customers have said they could not wait to have sex with a friend, a work colleague, a woman they see often at church, their wife, or even another man’s wife, just because they wanted to see their reaction when they orgasm. You will be engulfed with confidence when your performance meets your fantasies. There is no better feeling in the world than knowing the women you are about to have sex with has never had a man like you.
There is so much misinformation and so many bogus products surrounding penis enlargement that when they discover the solution, no one will believe. So here goes; any male can permanently increase length and girth in the same way a bodybuilder adds mass and becomes larger. As you stress tissue, the body goes into a natural process of creating new cells making you larger. The question is not whether permanent enlargement is possible but instead, how do you safely stress penile tissue to promote cell growth? The answers can be found by looking up Magnum Rings on Facebook or online.
Unfortunately, whenever it’s recognised that people feel insecure about an aspect of themselves, such as their appearance or sexuality, there will be unscrupulous types who’ll try to turn it into a money-making opportunity. This is why ads for miracle ‘cures’ for the small penis abound – on the internet, in magazines, in your inbox – not because they work, but because the advertisers know that millions of men hope these claims just might be true.
Penile size differs between men of different ethnic backgrounds and large studies of penis girth and length have been conducted by condom manufacturers. What many men perceive as a short penis actually falls into normal range size. Based on many published charts, scientific articles, and self reported web based surveys, 95 % of Caucasian men will fall into one of the following categories of size:

The doctors at Morganstern Medical have a competitive advantage over other physicians and urologists performing penis enlargement surgery. Dr. Steven Morganstern has developed surgery protocols that produce the maximum size permanently. In fact, he is the physician that teaches other physicians on his technique. If you are seeing the largest possible improvement in your penis size and an outcome that lasts a lifetime, Morganstern Medical has the best options for you.


So in 1997 he pivoted to the penis full-time, flexing his male enhancement chops by answering questions in web forums, Usenet groups and AOL chat rooms. Whatever he didn’t know, he learned, combing medical journals and consulting urologists to base his methodology on sound research. He was frustrated, though, by a dearth of information on natural, exercise-based male enhancement training and says the majority of online communities at the turn of the millenium were only focused on pumping. (Both jelqing and penis pumping force blood to the penis but do so differently. Imagine a tube of toothpaste: Starting at the bottom and squeezing the toothpaste out is jelqing; sucking the toothpaste out is pumping.)
In case if you feel discomfort then next day don’t increase the intensity. If it is too much discomfort in your last penis exercise session, then try to decrease the intensity of your exercise routine slightly. Remember, the goal is growth, not pain. A little bit of discomfort is normal but make sure don’t hurt yourself. The injury will not take you anywhere, and you will not achieve your goal.
Now that you know how to be all you can be, guys, I'm here to explain that men hung up on penis size are clueless about good sex. Any size penis can bring its owner great pleasure. But the best way to impress women erotically is to give them pleasure without using your penis. Only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse no matter what the man's size, so for the vast majority of women, vaginal stretching and deep penetration are not direct routes to pleasure and orgasm. Most women need--and appreciate--gentle, patient, sensual clitoral stimulation with fingers, tongue, or toy.
I ask for his pre-op dimensions. He doesn’t want his exact measurements reported, but they are surprising: while flaccid, he was smaller than most men; erect, his penis grew significantly. Modecai, it seems, experienced two decades of stress despite the fact that, fully extended, he was bigger than the UK average. This apparent contradiction does not surprise Angela Gregory, a psychosexual therapist based at Nottingham University Hospitals NHS Trust. “Penis enlargements can be about a lot of things,” she says. “But the amount of anxiety a man experiences rarely, in my experience, correlates with his actual size.”
The surgical treatments, the researchers found, were dangerous and had “unacceptably high rate of complications.” But among the nonsurgical methods, at least one appeared to help grow a man’s member: the “traction method,” in which a penile extender stretched the phallus daily, resulted in average growth of 0.7 in., or 1.8 cm, of the flaccid penis in one study. In another study of the same method, men reported an average increase of 0.9 in. (2.3 cm) in length while flaccid and 0.67 in. (1.7 cm) while erect.

According to the website of one such product, the safe application of traction encourages tissue cells to divide and multiply, a process called cytokinesis. Over time and with great effort this will lead to tissue growth. The FDA considers these low-risk devices (Class 1) and so provides only general controls intended to be followed by manufacturers.
The secret to our penis enlargement success is born from over thirty years of testing and refining our techniques by founding physician Steven L. Morganstern, MD. Unlike competing approaches, Dr. Morganstern knew the solution wasn’t going to be found in an artificial penile implant or injectable as the primary bulking agent. He pioneered the use of penile implants for treating erectile dysfunction in the 1980’s and better understood the complications and shortcomings of such artificial implantations.
The next day I got the shipping update and I nervously began pacing around my parents house plotting how to get the big brown box from the mail box to my room unnoticed so no one would ask “whats in the box” and leave me red faced and stammering while coming up with something to say. Few days go by and the mail comes, I bolt out the door to the mailbox, grabbed the box, dropped about 3 envelopes on the ground and bolt back inside. The mail on the ground was a casualty of war and I left it behind.
Anxiety is everywhere, floating freely through the air, passing from person to person like a virus on the wings of a sneeze. While some of us feel nervous about our jobs, our health, or our families, others feel a very personal dread about our own bodies. Preoccupied by physical appearances, we can become distracted from what matters most in life, and turn instead to worrying about some highly specific body part. If, by chance, we zero in on the piece of ourselves most closely associated with intimacy — our genitals — we might shut down entirely.
I’ve been using a pump for a year. My before measurement was 8-3/4″ erect x 6.2″ girth. After a year my erect length is now 9.5″ x 6.6″ girth. I’m very very happy with the results but ive had a few woman not able to handle certain positions. Some have loved it though so it depends I guess on what is preferred. I love the look on their face when we first start as I’m a athletic build but only 5′-10″ tall so having a 9.5″ penis starts a good conversation.
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Most of these products that are available over the counter feature herbal and natural ingredients. They are considered safe for use [12], but you should contact your physician if you are taking medications, are under 18, or have any chronic conditions. Even some natural ingredients can interfere with prescription medications [13]. A small minority of people, including males, can also have reactions to products such as enhancements, even though they are natural. As with any other supplement or food you consume, use your due diligence to make sure there are no ingredients you are allergic to in the products you choose to take.
Cock Rings. These rubber donut-shaped devices tightly encircle the erect penis. Typically used to help maintain erection, they also provide a small--temporary--size boost. Flaccid or erect, blood circulates in and out of the penis. One of the veins that carries blood out runs close to the organ's skin (on top). A ring restricts outflow somewhat by compressing this vein. Don't expect miracles. Any effect is modest and temporary.
If there is one unifying factor, it is a lack of confidence about what nature has provided. The average length of a British penis is, according to a 2016 King’s College London study, 5.16in erect and 3.67in flaccid. Only 0.14% of men have what one University of California study defined as a “micropenis” – that is, less than 2.5 inches when erect. Nonetheless, study after study shows dissatisfaction remains widespread among men.
The flip size is I have been with women with incredable vagina's that grip evry inch of my cock and makes it almost impossible not to come without pausing. I have also been with women with large vagina's that don't even come close to feeling as good. My thinking is the reatshionship between the cock and vagina is key and you just have to find the correct fit.
Ingredients Tongkat Ali, Zinc, Maca Root, L-Arginine, Panax ginseng, Eleutherococcus senticosus, Sarsaparilla, Pumpkin Seed, Muira Puama Bark, Oat Straw, Nettle Leaf, Cayenne Pepper, Astragalus, Licorice, Catauba Bark, Tribulus Terrestris , Orchic, Boron,Oyster Hoodia gordonii Cactus Concentrate (stem), Glucomannan (Amorphophallus konjac root), Green Tea Leaf, Theobromine, Guarana Seed, Cha de Bugre Leaf Powder, Maca Root, Caralluma fimbriata Cactus, L-Theanine, Banaba Leaf (Lagerstroemia speciosa) Horny Goat Weed Leaf Extract (Epimedium Grandiforum), Tongkat Ali Root Extract (Eurycoma Longifolia), Saw Palmetto Fruit Extract, Orchic Substance, Wild Yam Root Extract, Sarsaprilla Root Extract, Nettle Root Extract and Boron Amino Acid Chelate Calcium, Vitamin B-6, Magnesium, Melatonin, Valerian Root, Hops Flower, Skullcap, Chamomile Flower, Passion Flower, L Taurine, Inositol, GABA, Gelatin, Silicon Dioxide, Magnesium Stearate Horny Goat Weed (herb powder), Maca (herb powder), Macuna Pruriens (L-Dopa), Polypodium Vulgare (herb powder), Yohimbe Bark (herb powder), Saw Palmetto (herb powder), Muira Puama (herb powder), Arginine (L-Arginine hydrochloride), Panax Ginseng

Other tips for preventing penis shrinkage such as stopping smoking and optimizing blood flow to the penis may not have a lot of studies to back them up, but we do know there’s a relationship between healthy blood flow and sexual health. Taking measures to maintain blood flow throughout the body, which includes quitting smoking, may not specifically prevent shrinkage but can promote overall sexual health and wellness.
Then I discovered HARDWEAR and I thought it was the sexiest looking thing I’d ever seen, and all the guys—their dicks so big in it—were very exciting to me. Travis had never been into male toys, but we sometimes picked up gadgets for me, I made a point of putting a search into google the next time we were looking for toys for me that would be sure to bring back HARDWEAR, and my plan worked. He thought it looked hot as hell too, and I went on and on about how beautiful his cock would look in it, and we ordered ourselves some HARDWEAR – express next day shipping thank you very much.
Richard, the mechanic from New York, got results faster than Bob, but still wore the device under his clothes for about eight hours a day. Richard's wife has also been supportive. "I see a more confident man in front of me from using this product," she says. She also says the lengthening has enhanced their sex life, though she had no complaints before.
No herbal remedy can restore erections like Viagra and its prescription counterparts, says Steven Lamm, MD, an assistant professor of medicine at New York University and author of The Hardness Factor. But Lamm says these remedies may be appropriate for men who have experienced a decline in sexual performance but do not suffer from a diagnosable sexual problem. Lamm has endorsed an herbal remedy, marketed under the Roaring Tiger label, that combines horny goat weed and other herbal extracts with the amino acid L-arginine. (The supplements are made by the same company that makes the FastSize Extender.)
Thomas Modecai, 37, a teacher from Crewe, has struggled with the size of his penis for most of his life. “When I was 14, I shot up to 6ft but my penis stayed the same,” he says. “I felt like a man with a child’s penis. And it’s affected everything: my relationships, my confidence, even my desire to have children. I worried they might have the same issue.”
The internet is packed with banner ads and pop-ups that advertise pills and lotions for male enhancement and enlarging the penis. They often contain herbs, hormones, minerals, and vitamins, but none of them have been proven to work [4]. Some pills have been investigated by the FDA and found to have levels of prescription drugs like sildenafil (Viagra) in them, and the FDA notes that there’s a growing trend of dietary supplements that contain hidden chemicals and drugs [5].
Because many young men are concerned about the size of their penis and would like it larger, there are many unethical people or businesses that offer lotions or pills or other types of non-medical treatment to enlarge or lengthen the penis. None of these methods have been fully tested in clinical trials and approved for medical use – and none of them are recommended by reputable physicians. They are taking advantage of a man’s concerns about his penis size (despite the fact that most men have a normal size penis) and seeking to get his money for treatments that are worthless at best. Some can be dangerous or may even damage the penis. None of these methods or products can be recommended or should be used.
Did you know that the longer you wear HARDWEAR, the bigger (harder, thicker, longer) your penis becomes. Seen above in the before and after photo Clay’s erection is shown without HARDWEAR on the left, and his erection after 8 minutes of wearing HARDWEAR is shown on the right. The amazing male enhancer gets a man instantly super large and super hard and then continues to have a pumping effect on the man’s penis for as long as he wears the device… so the longer the round of love making or masturbation the bigger he becomes. Some men, who enjoy marathon rounds of sex for say an hour or longer—that’s right, you can last however long you want in HARDWEAR because it stops early ejaculation too, putting men in total control—like to switch out thier regular size HARDWEAR in the middle of extended sex\training sessions, too a larger size. The reason being that HARDWEAR is so effective at expanding male genital geometry that extended rounds some men become too big for their regular size and need to go up a size. HARDWEAR works instantly and effectively to make you larger every time you put it on, from the first time to forever, and acts as a training device that promotes better circulation for a beefier looking penis even without the device. Long-term, repeated HARDWEAR use may result in permanent size gains even when not wearing the device.

“Lots of them are placebos and gimmicks that are sometimes semi-poisonous. But I also do believe that extended time exercising the penile muscles will lead to increased blood flow, and over time, this increase may not diminish. Permanent damage has been done in the pursuit of modification to the body that is not the one we were born with!” says Lovejoy. Male pride is a rascally creature, isn't it?
Male enhancement supplements work by increasing the amount of blood flow the genital region receives and the volume of blood that it can retain. In a flaccid state, the penis, like any other part of the body, receives a normal amount of blood flow. When an erection occurs, the penis is surged with a rich supply of blood which is then trapped in the spongy tissues of the Cavernosa and Spongiosum.

Good sex is certainly not about performance. Worrying about your penis size is falling victim to performance anxiety, which can lead to erectile difficulties and other sexual problems. For more information on Erectile Dysfunction, visit our ED Clinic for advice or a free assessment. Good sex is about being relaxed, in the moment, not focused on other things apart from enhancing thoughts and enjoying the physical sensations you experience with your partner.
Of all the sex-related topics out there, the one surrounded by the most myth is definitely penis enlargement. If you’re a guy who’s ever checked their spam folder, you’ll see reams and reams of emails promising more inches with pills, creams, surgery and more. Don’t trust them, obviously — however, there are so many who are trying to sell people on having a bigger penis that there must be more to it, right?
Herbal remedies, Kegels (pelvic floor exercises — learn more here), and exercises have all been mentioned as potential ways to make your penis bigger. However, we’ve searched and searched for medical evidence that these techniques will work to grow your penis, but there’s simply zero, zilch, nada, no evidence. You may find lots of unverified anecdotes, which come from a sample size of one, but they simply cannot be trusted. After all, no one on the internet knows you’re a dog (or liar). We recommend that you avoid these techniques.

In 10 years as a sex therapist and 20 years as a marital therapist, I've had gobs of complaints from women whose partners were too big for comfortable sex. I've only had 2 in 20 years about her partner being too small. The first woman had a vaginal laxity after childbirth (previously, he had been "just right" and the second woman had marvelous orgasms with the small man but had a mental block.
Ingredients Tongkat Ali, Zinc, Maca Root, L-Arginine, Panax ginseng, Eleutherococcus senticosus, Sarsaparilla, Pumpkin Seed, Muira Puama Bark, Oat Straw, Nettle Leaf, Cayenne Pepper, Astragalus, Licorice, Catauba Bark, Tribulus Terrestris , Orchic, Boron,Oyster Hoodia gordonii Cactus Concentrate (stem), Glucomannan (Amorphophallus konjac root), Green Tea Leaf, Theobromine, Guarana Seed, Cha de Bugre Leaf Powder, Maca Root, Caralluma fimbriata Cactus, L-Theanine, Banaba Leaf (Lagerstroemia speciosa) Horny Goat Weed Leaf Extract (Epimedium Grandiforum), Tongkat Ali Root Extract (Eurycoma Longifolia), Saw Palmetto Fruit Extract, Orchic Substance, Wild Yam Root Extract, Sarsaprilla Root Extract, Nettle Root Extract and Boron Amino Acid Chelate Calcium, Vitamin B-6, Magnesium, Melatonin, Valerian Root, Hops Flower, Skullcap, Chamomile Flower, Passion Flower, L Taurine, Inositol, GABA, Gelatin, Silicon Dioxide, Magnesium Stearate Horny Goat Weed (herb powder), Maca (herb powder), Macuna Pruriens (L-Dopa), Polypodium Vulgare (herb powder), Yohimbe Bark (herb powder), Saw Palmetto (herb powder), Muira Puama (herb powder), Arginine (L-Arginine hydrochloride), Panax Ginseng

My only concern was TIME. Many people reporting they are getting only 0.25-0.50 inch increase after whole year. I don’t know about you but for me these are not type of results that I want. I want something quick so my research lands me to John Collin’s Penis Enlargement Bible that talks about 2-step method for penis growth. At first I was skeptical about it but then again when I saw couple of real people testimonials I decided to give it a try mainly because it comes with 60-days guarantee.


To start the stretching, you have to create an ‘OK’ using your thumb and index finger with whatever hand you are going to use for stretching. Wrap your thumb and index finger just below the penis head. Start by stretching out your penis in front of you. Make sure you stretch firmly, not hard as it will cause pain and hold the stretch for 30 minutes. Then, move to your next stretch.
Good news America, you can now get your hands on the world’s only climax control training program proven to help men last longer, for longer. Powered by a 3-volt motor and years of scientific research, Prolong works by fine tuning your penis’ over-sensitive trigger zone (just enough to tame your timing). Clinical results show a rise in average duration from three to almost nine minutes¹, all without the need for pills, sprays or expensive therapy. 

Anxiety is everywhere, floating freely through the air, passing from person to person like a virus on the wings of a sneeze. While some of us feel nervous about our jobs, our health, or our families, others feel a very personal dread about our own bodies. Preoccupied by physical appearances, we can become distracted from what matters most in life, and turn instead to worrying about some highly specific body part. If, by chance, we zero in on the piece of ourselves most closely associated with intimacy — our genitals — we might shut down entirely.
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